"We do have a say in what happens to us."
Yes Jz you do and should have. Subs understand this I think better than many Doms. Subs who don't understand this are putting themselves in danger.
Do read Jz's recent post. She has written much of what I have been stumbling to say over recent months and years. You can find it here.
I think a good summary is contained in her words here:
"Genuine, sustainable submission comes from deep within and is based on faith and trust."
I hope that is what I have been trying to argue here.
Sticking point - Mary emailed me again recently. Things seem to be going very well for her but she has a problem. I'll let her explain: I have a question that you and perha...
5 weeks ago